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Author Topic: Another Simple Sarging Strategy: Setting A Rejection Goal
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Post Another Simple Sarging Strategy: Setting A Rejection Goal
on: November 11, 2011, 22:40
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To some of you guys, this might be a pretty obvious strategy but I'm posting it in here for the benefit of all (since nobody posted about this in here).

Recommended For: Beginners
Recommended Use: All types of game (day game, night game, FB game, etc)

Problem: You fail to approach beautiful women because you're afraid of rejection and the social, mental, and emotional pain it can give you.

The Solution:
Step 1: Before sarging, set a goal of how many rejections (walk aways, snobs, etc) you should receive in a session.

*I usually set around 10 rejections for 1 hour of sarging.

Step 2: During the session and with the best of your game ability, meet as many women as you can until you reach the number of rejections you should receive.

Step 3: After reaching your number of rejections goal, reward yourself.

*I like to reward myself with 1 Liter of Chuckie after every sarging session.

Other Alternative Use Of This Strategy:
-Personally, I've integrated this strategy in my daily life. Whether I'm sarging or not, I'm always looking for opportunities to be rejected (the positive type). Thus, achieving my goal at the end of the day. So yeah, from the moment I wake up to the time I sleep, I aim to be rejected 10 times in a day.

Why I Think This Works:
-Instead of making rejection an enemy, you make it your ally for growth. As ladies men and to those aspiring to be, rejection is part of our reality as players. The question is, how will you deal with it?
-Because it's fun and challenging.

Word Of Caution:
The point of the exercise is not to get rejected because you were being a jerk, asshole, or creep but to play out your game the best that you can, learn that rejection is part of the game, and sharpen your game further.

Hope this helps a lot of you, guys.
Your feedback and suggestions are well appreciated. Thanks.
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Post Re: Another Simple Sarging Strategy: Setting A Rejection Goal
on: May 13, 2012, 23:52
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men this is great! try ko.
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Post Re: Another Simple Sarging Strategy: Setting A Rejection Goal
on: June 29, 2012, 13:10
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Thats a good way to re-frame rejection. But like you said theres a possible negative part about self sabotage.
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1. Don’t be socially awkward – Relax. Breathe calmly and take things slow. Don’t try to impress.

If you don’t know how to talk or approach “people” just ask something that is common about you and their company. If it’s a cashier at the store ask what time the establishment closes. Ask for opinions, be curious.

There’s always a start. Small talk can be a good way to overcome shyness, anxiety, or sometimes excitement. After you get used to small talk move unto broader and deeper topics. It is somehow also best avoid argumentative topics such as politics and religion.

Some of the good subjects that you can talk about is food, movies, and other general topics.

Don’t be a snob. Be friendly. Smile. Have an open body language.  Understand social norm on know what is creepy from what’s not. Lighten up and focus on the positive things that is around us.

2. Have a sense of style – Some pick up gurus, artist, or enthusiasts would say that looks doesn’t matter. A lot of of guy’s that aren’t really blessed in the looks department can really achieve success with women just with pick up and the skills that you can learn from it. But it is also better if you improve on how you look and how you present yourself.

Exercise. Go to the gym. Go at least thrice a week. Eat healthy foods, take vitamins and meditate or introspect once in a while.

Check out the movies or the switch the television on. Find, choose a cool guy, or your idol of which the style is the one you find cool. Check out magazines and fashion blogs about the latest trends and style. You can ask a friend to help you out.

3. Have something going on with your life – Be passionate. Be active. Tackle your interests and hobbies. Improve in every aspect of you life whether it be with your family, friends, health, wealth, etc.

Finish a goal, achieve something, create something. Touch lives.

4. Life isn’t a race –  Life should be fun and enjoyed. Don’t rush. Set some goals and pursue them one at a time. Put some deadlines.

5. Start dating - You will never know until you try. If you don’t have any girl to ask out, ask the first beautiful girl that you see. Tell her that, you don’t have bad intentions, and the reason that you did talk to her is that you find her attractive and that this may seem forward but you’d like to ask her out.

If she rejects you life goes on and if she accepts your invitation then it’s a win.

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