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on: February 21, 2012, 14:00
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I was raised in a conservative environment and I am not fond of going into clubs (although I'm okay with rock concerts and sports bar). I generally look for girls in a church with a sizeable expat community. I have a particular fondness for white women regardless of nationality. I can approach them, greet them, although I tend to run out of words to say. Unfortunately I get turned down whenever I ask for a date.

I'm looking for a long term partner here. I like the offer of the site and its programs but the values are different. So...is this PUA thing for me? Thanks. (And if yes, how do I begin?)
Marco Lee
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on: February 21, 2012, 15:13
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PUA is simple. It's knowing what you want and getting what you want. Values are personal and you can always have them with you.

You've said that you get turned down whenever you ask for a date, pua can help you with that... You can ask your friends, who always have dates; how do they do it? You can also maybe asses, why you get turned down. That's how you can begin.
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on: February 24, 2012, 16:40
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Being a pick up artist is a choice. If you choose to be good with women, learn pick up arts. By then, your actions will be aligned with your wants.

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on: June 29, 2012, 10:11
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I can't really think of a reason not to want to do this, PUA will give you so many benefits. It has a domino effect on your thinking. when you experience success with women. The skill set you build will help you in all other social interactions. These techniques of building social value, being funny, dealing with difficult conversations and interactions are all very valuable in your every day life. Its the confidence that it gives you that is most noticeable to others. Think about how you will approach things like job interviews, public speaking, pitching ideas to your boss after you built the skill set that PUA gives you.

But short term, every guy who goes in-field knows the sense of achievement every time you master a step. You remember the first time you actually approached a stranger and made a successful opener, then applied the hook, then built comfort, then the first time a chick met your qualifiers and was in to you, the feeling you got when you successfully escalated physicality, number closed, kiss closed, or sex closed a chick? You feel a million dollars at every stage you succeed.

For me I find the science and theory of PUA, the intellectual side interesting. Developing and making your game as tight as it can be. It really is like any other skill. But society views the guys that can do this as having high value, because naturals have spread a lie that PUA is a ability that cannot be learned. So when you do get a tight game and people see your good with women it will give you higher status and make other areas of your life more interesting.

Scorpy Pua
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on: July 24, 2012, 11:01
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Throughout the history there were kingdoms that has been fallen because of women. Troy because of Hellen, Samson because of delailah, The legacy of Ferdinand Marcos because of Imelda, etc. Men, even the most powerful, struggle to attract women and to out-play their competition. Some gave-up their power and leave their responsibilities just because of one woman.
So are we going to wait for another kingdom to fall or even in ourselves, are we going to waste all our hardwork just to attract a woman improperly and leave ourselves struggling in the unknown believing in the old ways to attract women? Or are we going to know how to attract them properly and live the life we wanted with all the effort and hardwork to learn the RIGHT way?

Being a PUA is for everyone. It is in our blood as a MAN. The fact that we are existing today, we are attractive because our fathers, grandfathers and our ancestors were pre-selected by our mothers. It is in our blood bro. We are a PUA since from the start we just need to unleash the MAN inside of us.
We are naturally free and we can choose whoever we wanted to be. If you want to become a PUA then be a PUA. Don't blame your parents for your bad programming, they just wanted you to become a good person and they just follow what "they" think is good for you. But if you don't want that person, you have the right and the freedom to change it. It is in your hands bro.

Be a PUA, Live Young and Wild and Free!
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on: March 28, 2013, 19:43
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Hey,

Great topic

If you want to know more about being a PUA, try reading this:

http://www.authenticpua.com/dating-articles/natural-game-and-creating-moments/
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Dating Advice For Men

Here are some general tips that you can know and use to instantly change your dating and pick up life for the better.

1. Don’t be socially awkward – Relax. Breathe calmly and take things slow. Don’t try to impress.

If you don’t know how to talk or approach “people” just ask something that is common about you and their company. If it’s a cashier at the store ask what time the establishment closes. Ask for opinions, be curious.

There’s always a start. Small talk can be a good way to overcome shyness, anxiety, or sometimes excitement. After you get used to small talk move unto broader and deeper topics. It is somehow also best avoid argumentative topics such as politics and religion.

Some of the good subjects that you can talk about is food, movies, and other general topics.

Don’t be a snob. Be friendly. Smile. Have an open body language.  Understand social norm on know what is creepy from what’s not. Lighten up and focus on the positive things that is around us.

2. Have a sense of style – Some pick up gurus, artist, or enthusiasts would say that looks doesn’t matter. A lot of of guy’s that aren’t really blessed in the looks department can really achieve success with women just with pick up and the skills that you can learn from it. But it is also better if you improve on how you look and how you present yourself.

Exercise. Go to the gym. Go at least thrice a week. Eat healthy foods, take vitamins and meditate or introspect once in a while.

Check out the movies or the switch the television on. Find, choose a cool guy, or your idol of which the style is the one you find cool. Check out magazines and fashion blogs about the latest trends and style. You can ask a friend to help you out.

3. Have something going on with your life – Be passionate. Be active. Tackle your interests and hobbies. Improve in every aspect of you life whether it be with your family, friends, health, wealth, etc.

Finish a goal, achieve something, create something. Touch lives.

4. Life isn’t a race –  Life should be fun and enjoyed. Don’t rush. Set some goals and pursue them one at a time. Put some deadlines.

5. Start dating - You will never know until you try. If you don’t have any girl to ask out, ask the first beautiful girl that you see. Tell her that, you don’t have bad intentions, and the reason that you did talk to her is that you find her attractive and that this may seem forward but you’d like to ask her out.

If she rejects you life goes on and if she accepts your invitation then it’s a win.

Now there are other ways on how you can improve yourself. You can check out our articles and hope you can learn more about pick up and dating at Beyond Pick Up.

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