Will you be one of the lucky guys? I hope so. Life is just more fun with a great girl on your arm. So let’s get right away to your summer pick up and dating questions:

Hi Savoy,

I’m hoping you can help me. I met a girl at my friend’s party and at first it went great – I’ve never kissed a girl one hour after meeting her before! I’m not a “natural” so I like how your book breaks it down so it’s all step by step and I’m not confused, but I think I made a mistake anyways.

I wanted her to come sit outside with me where it was quieter and we could get to know each other, but she kept saying she couldn’t leave her friends. I even offered to give her friends my phone or to sit where they could see us from the window, but she still said no. Now, it’s a few days later and I’ve called her a few times and she hasn’t answered.

I’m worried I lost her – please help, what can I do now?

Your friend,

Miklas (“Mike”), Chicago, IL

Hey Mike,

I wasn’t there, but my guess is she didn’t want to leave the party and go outside. When an offer gets rejected like this, change her mood, not her mind. Don’t sulk. Just figure out what emotions she still needs to feel with you (e.g., excitement, trust, curiosity) and focus on those.

You’ll be amazed. I had a client at last year’s SuperConference who tried to invite a serious “10″ back to his room towards the end of the night. She said she didn’t go home with strange men. He laughed it off, did some more push-pull, and a few minutes later she asked him if he was ready to leave.

A lot of women say no at first to see how you’ll handle it.

Another thing – if you’re making out with a girl within an hour at a party, she’s probably looking more for “fun and excitement” than “deep connection in a 1-1 chat outside when everyone is having fun inside”.

As for what to do now? It’s probably done, but you can use some of the revitalizing old phone numbers techniques from Braddock and Mr. M’s Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game. Some text messages and strategies are better for these kinds of “long fuse” situations than calling.

Click the link below to learn more:

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Dear Savoy,

I was one of those guys you talked about in your video – who wants something better but makes every excuse so I don’t have to change. I was shocked out of that last summer when a close friend passed away unexpectedly. Any of us can go at any moment – and I want to live my LIFE first.

Long story short, I’ve been to a bootcamp and a day game workshop since then and I’ve done a 180. I’ve hooked up with more women than I could count – and this is all since last August. I literally feel like a new person.

My problem is that I’m not sure I LIKE this new person. Sex is fun, but I realized I’m breaking a lot of hearts and one of my friends got on me about this recently. I’m thinking of settling down but I like what I’m doing with Love Systems. How do you or other instructors handle it?

Chris A., Montpellier, VT

Hi Chris,

Whoa…

YOU are in charge of your life. No one said you had to use Love Systems to sleep with every hot woman you see. (No one said you couldn’t, either.)

If it’s just about feeling like you’re leading women on, then there are some great expectation-setting tools in the Friends with Benefits interview with Braddock and me. It’s a myth that women only want sex if it’s leading to a relationship. It’s something women say to nice guys to get them to keep their hands to themselves, and so they don’t get judged.

But what women don’t tend to like – as you’ve experienced – are guys who imply one thing and then deliver another. I’ve never lost a girl just because I sent expectations – comfortably and not awkwardly – in advance.

If you want a girlfriend, great. I’m sure there are plenty of guys from your bootcamp and/or day game workshop who have settled down with their dream girl by now. The advice we give is not to get into a relationship for at least six weeks – not forever.

The six weeks aren’t because relationships are bad. It’s because when you’re picking up much higher-quality women than you’re used to, it’s not easy to make good decisions right away. You wouldn’t ask someone who is used to McDonald’s to choose a great steakhouse. Not until he’s been to a couple of them anyway…

… but it sounds like you’ve dated enough now to be able to make good decisions. So, stop letting everyone hold you back. Summer is coming – get your life sorted so you make the most of it!

Take care,

Nick (Savoy)

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• Gentle Man’s Guide To Online Dating – The latest of one of Love System’s Top Dating Coaches Derek Cajun gives you the detailed guide on how to meet women online. (You can read some reviews here and here)
• Beyond Words DVD – A book about body language and physical escalation where you can learn more on how you can better attract women through touch and other things physical.
• Relationship Management DVD – Wanting to know ways on how you can rekindle or sustain happy constructive relationships or want to know more and engage in other types of relationships. Love System’s relationship management dvd has it for you.
• Magic Bullets – The Holy Grail of Love Systems. Magic Bullets hand book details you about the courting process and will guide you from meeting approaching women up to seduction.

There’s just one thing that kind of concerns me…

Even though I see (and congratulate you to your great efforts) that you are having great results with your pick-up and attraction skills, I can’t help but notice something utterly pathetic.

All of a sudden from smooth and slick “Casanova”, men start to snail back to their wussy and needy state.

Hear that?

You’ve got a great chick; you’re having great sex and then all of a sudden…

Boom.

She’s off the hook and you haven’t had a clue what hit you.

Guys, listen up…

Would we all agree that in some point in our lives all of us thought of the age-o’l-myth that Women are a “mystery”?

We had this pre-programmed notion, through the influence and conditioning of society and culture.

Thus, you see countless men NOT EVER getting the potential mate or woman that they truly desire in their wildest dreams.

Although chivalry has its rightful place in history of the mating game.

In our futile attempt, we try to still cling on to this sage old concept and think, or more accurately, ASSUME that these are what women REALLY want.

Guys with deep pockets would spend a fortune on her…

Some will be a rightful pussy and always please her by agreeing and never challenge her opinions…

But most often, when a guy really likes a girl, he will constantly make himself ready: ready to rescue her and submit to her every whim and ready to be always available to take her call.

He thinks that if he shows her that he’s a decent gentleman by always expending all her efforts and time: make her feel things such as “secure” and “always wanted”—she’ll eventually come around and start feeling attraction towards him.

Bad news is this ship is heading towards an iceberg…

Attraction does not work this way!

See, when you recite poetry and sing all the goo-goo stuff that you “think” make women go gaga for men…

Or you talk about life and how you can be her crying shoulder… (Ugh)

She may feel AFFECTION, but not necessarily ATTRACTION.

It’s the same emotion they feel for her girlfriends or her gay hair dresser…

Or towards her brother

Or her puppy.

But does she want to sleep with any of them? Of course not.

You must get it that Attraction is a whole new different arena or game. There are sets of rules and principles that govern the game. You must be convinced right now that the misconceived chivalry tactics would get you nowhere ahead of your game. It works in a whole new level and in a whole new way: not from taking her to expensive dates or by showering her with all the time and attention.

In contrast, I think we’d be going against all common knowledge.

One example is that you must LIMIT your time and attention and even your availability in order to really peak her interest and curiosity towards you.

This has a whole new context of course.

It’s not as simple as it looks.

You can’t just tell her your too busy and “blow her off”. You want to set yourself up with SMART TACTICS to make you look like the cream-of-the-crop and put you in the pedestal as the prize she must be on her knees to win.

(Within the underlying traits of what typical hot chicks say they’d want in a man. They’d tell you that they picture the ideal guy as someone who is handsome, funny, and rich. Don’t be fooled, the principles of attractions still remain and hitherto would still make women fall for ANY man who knows how to push the right buttons to make her feel REAL SEXUAL ATTRACTION.)

Women are very simple and transparent than what others may think they are not. Once you get a solid understanding of who they really are, you’ll be laughing at the myth that “Women are a mystery”.

If you know how to understand and be aware of all her silly games and tomfoolery, you’d know how to glide through the “smoke screen” and definitely stimulate her “attraction triggers”.

Unfortunately as I mentioned, guys still bang their heads against the wall because they haven’t had any success with women.

Therefore, they go through this endless spiral of confusion and never have their desires truly fulfilled.

On the other hand we all know a guy, who by the great find of chance or fate, has a way with the ladies.

It could have been someone in school, college or work who had this particular charm and charisma that so envied you—because it had its way with women.

He wasn’t Chris Hemsworth or Carlos Slim. He didn’t play “super sweet” to come off as a heartthrob—in fact, if you’d come to notice, I’m sure he was pretty much arrogant and cocky.

Girls KNEW this guy was a “player”…

And yet for some reason, they found him utterly IRRESSISTIBLE!

They found no escape for his swagger, even though girls may fool themselves that they would never fall for his charades—because we all know it does.

And while this “player” is boning every chick he sets his eyes on, you and the other guys drool and say, “How in the hell does he do it?”, “What is his SECRET?”

By now I’ve pretty much peaked your curiosity that you’re ready to learn the secret to this elusive trait.

Good news is it is NOT a MYSTERY.

Success with women is based on rules and principles that any guy can learn, apply, and master.

It is not a talent some are born with. What you see took endless hours to perfect their skill.

The secret to this is that you need to know that virtually every girl share CORE needs and DESIRES that have all in common.

Some may take time or practice to notice but inevitably you will learn how to identify and capitalize on these similar attributes.

You probably would not notice it, but if you have had your fair share of being successful with women, one way or another: you probably have been instinctively following through the rules that apply to get women to be attracted to you even though you may or may not understand fully yet.

Once you fully grasp and comprehend though why these rules work, and how you get that jigsaw puzzle all fitted into place, you’ll know all the ropes to your game that you’d be unstoppable.

To put it in Analogy, getting really good with women is very much similar to learning a foreign language.

You may learn a few phrases from a travel guide book and you’re excited to say a few chops of some interesting words or sentences that you picked up to arouse and entertain locals with your awkward accent.

You mumble, stutter and don’t know how these conjunctions all fit together into your foreign tongue.

You fail in holding an extended conversation with every local who speaks the language because all you know is “Hi”, “Hello”, or “Goodbye”.

There is no point to this concept because learning rapidly is to immerse yourself in the culture itself.

Why? Because eventually you’ll know these people’s origins and habitats of living, you know everything that affects their way of life.

You can relate to them perfectly and pretty soon you’ll be blending in with them so fluently that it’s in your blood.

Can you see how this relates to Women?

Guys, who only know how to play the introduction of a song but don’t know the chords to perform a decent cover, only know the tip of the iceberg.

They know some of the basics, but not all of them.

And that is what makes them struggle A LOT.

When you’ve got solid footing and know how to handle yourself in all situations, you’ll become bulletproof to any obstacle that may come in your way.

• Can you handle if she’s seeing or dating someone else?

• What if you want to talk to her, or take her home, but you’re worried about “blowing it?”

• Can you see yourself being her Mr. Right and be her beau?

• Can you still make her interested if let’ say she just went through a recent breakup and does not want to see anyone new?

These are just several examples of challenges. There are an ENDLESS number of these that you will face in your quest to get women.

But all of these have their rightful place in the program that I am going to teach you.

In this program, you’ll learn all the basics to develop all the skills and confidence you need to tackle ANYTHING. You’ll know if you’re missing the point is if you’re still letting women play there silly games on you.

Listen.

When you’re done with it, talking to girls will feel like you’re playing an easy level on a video game that you’ve already beaten.

You’ll be fluent with women; you’d know that to say because you know who they can be if you just push the right triggers.

And that my friend is how you can awe other guys and say “How the hell does he do it?!” Check out the link below to know more of what we’re talking about.

Attraction and Seduction Tactics

You’ll see how this goes as we go along.

Never use clichés or obvious openers like, “Can I talk to you for a sec?” or “Do you have the time?”

Do You Have What It Takes to Talk To These Asian Women? (click image)

I don’t recommend also asking them close ended questions that makes you seem like a wussy asking for permission. Don’t say things like, “Excuse me, do you mind if I ask you something?” Or, “Pardon me, can I talk to you for a minute?”

This may seem like you’re a non-offending totally respectful gentleman but it 99% triggers an adverse response towards women. See, there is a built-in defense mechanism hard wired into women’s brains that will almost automatically put you off once you start asking these lame yes-no questions. She’ll come with reasons not to engage in an interaction with you.

Think of this, you’re some random guy who creeps up to her and asks, “Hi, how are you?” or “Can I talk to you for a sec?” To her, your intentions are unclear and she’ll most likely spray you with mace if you try even more to advance towards her. Tons of questions enter her mind: if she does allow you to talk to her, what’s going to happen next? Are you going to hit on her? Sell her something? Trap her in a boring conversation you need to escape from? What is the deal here?

Your only way out is to make sure you never give her the opportunity to ‘disqualify’ or blow you off. Be original and creative by using effective openers that blows the immediate tension between you and her. In that way, you’ll never give her the chance to even go in ‘defensive’ mode because right now, both of you are smiling and talking.

Just use your originality coupled with your common sense to make these Openers. Keep in mind that Asian women are particularly self-conscious about other people watching them so approach and choose your game wisely. Obviously, a Japanese woman walking briskly down a crowded street in Tokyo has an 80% of turning you down no matter how slick or smooth your openings are.

Instead, try to situate a scenario where they could be isolated for a period of time (obviously don’t look like a rapist). For example, a perfect place is when you spot your girl browsing through some books in the bookstore aisles, or when she’s out picking vegetables or fruits. It is not advisable that you do this when there are a lot of people that could see you and her.

A tip on body language: it is an understatement to think that body language has little to do with successfully opening up women. What you say is inherently important as the ‘how’ you say it. So learn to know the ideal body language so that you could communicate with women freely and openly. Don’t be nervous, stand tall, be confident and be on a cheerful disposition.  Relax. If you have to practice in front of a mirror, do it! Avoid placing your hands in awkward places such as your pockets, or scratching, fidgeting wherever. Get this, if you project the wrong image, she’ll feel more tensed and uncomfortable towards you.

Observe her response with how you deliver your openers. Does she look startled or worried? Any point of tension or strain should be noticed so that you’d know how to deal with the situation. She may have a husband or boyfriend and maybe nervous being seen in public talking with you. Or, she may be just extremely shy and is not used to talking with a random guy. If any of these signals come up, you either: lack practice, or it’s totally not going to work at all. At this point it’s best to bail and just smile and leave her on her way. Some Will, Some Won’t, So What, Someone is waiting!

Now, let’s talk about some effective Openers and how to use them.

Line 1: Language Lessons

Asian women are polite and very much kind hearted when it comes to helping foreigners trying to learn their local language. I have found out that it is a great way to start a conversation because it seems like an innocent and harmless approach. First you could say a well-known word or phrase that is a traditional greeting amongst the locals. Do a little research and try learning a whole phrase or expression in their local language. This will get the women laughing.

By then, she’d have the interest enough to stop and maybe hear more of your funny local language attempts. Smile and laugh, (act a little bit shy and apologetic) and admit that you badly need some quick help or advice (lest you get lost in the streets and directions).

For this reason, you should devise of a way as to how to be able to bring your opener to a conjusive set up. What I do is that I bring a small pad of paper containing ‘language notes’ and a pen.  Or, you can keep this information programmed into your phone. (I carry an iPhone and have my phrases programmed into my ‘Notes’ application, which is perfect for this.)

Try to display to her like your some helpless, apologetic tourist who doesn’t know his way. You can show her your notes and the pronunciation of phrases you have learned during your stay and try to make her laugh with your weird accent. Make her comfortable and then swiftly ask her for some kind help with translation of some phrases you need to know. This technique is also cool because she’s going to move in close to you, so that she can help you with your notes. This closes the physical gap.

It is not necessarily required that you learn everything that there is to the local language of an Asian country. You don’t even need to do this to be able to communicate with the women. I’m just saying that your technique in asking some quick ‘language lessons’ is an amazing way to meet women.

Although you may want to consider that even though you try to learn some phrases of the local language, you should be also working on your skills in the language of the Asian women you want to meet. It shows that you respect and appreciate their culture.

Line 2: Flattery Will Get Your Everywhere

It is really quite peculiar and fascinating that flattery can be so much more welcomed by Asian women than Western women. I love it so much because, even though I mean it with an utmost sincerity, it easily melts the ice and lets Asian women put their guards down just like that. While I would advise you to be cautious with saying these things to Western women, with Asian women it’s PERFECTLY okay for you to open with a flirtatious compliment such as, ‘you’re so cute’ or ‘you’re very pretty’. Say it to her and deliver the line in her language, don’t be scared because they’d admire your courage more instead of your wrong pronunciation.

It actually amazes how Asian women can be caught off guard by these simple and seamless compliments. Just be yourself, smile and be carefree and make it seem like you spotted a hot chick brushing your way past you in the hot sun. She may giggle or blush or if she’s a Filipina, she might downplay it by saying ‘Oh, no, I’m not’…or ‘bola-bola’ (which means she’s saying playfully, ‘you’re a liar’)

In the end most of them are thoughtful enough to regard your efforts of complimenting them and they’ll be, in most cases, touched with your sincerity.

I highly doubt that you’d get blown off.  It’s so effective and more often than not, I transition my Openers quickly and smoothly to a conversation.

Trust me, they’ll love you for it.

Know What To Say When You Meet Her (click image)

Line 3: I Think I Saw You From [Name Of Place]

This one works like a charm. Act as if you are trying to figure out who she is and as if she was some familiar face you saw from somewhere: rub your chin, make eye contact (but don’t bore holes through her), and make a grin or smile suggesting that you’re having a hard but fun time trying to remember where you saw her (if you’re confident enough, you may even snap your fingers and say “Wait, wait, wait…”). Act as if as if you’ve met her before, but you can’t recall where. It may look silly, but here is the catch. After a moment’s pause trying to act as if figuring out where you saw her, you then say, “Do I know you from somewhere?”

Dumbfounded, she’ll try her best to recall how in the heck she’s supposed to know you and figure out who you are.

Then, this is where it gets interesting, make up a location as to where you supposedly saw her before.

For example, I’m in the Philippines, I might say “Were you in Boracay last week?” (The popular beach resort island.) Or, “You were at the Skybar nightclub last night, right? Wearing a sexy red dress?” Just make something up. As a fail-safe, you can say a location that she probably was in. (Say that you saw her recently at the biggest shopping mall in the city.)

When she seems to be indignant and insists you two have never met before, and that you have completely mixed her up with someone else. This is what you say, “Really? Interesting. Do you have a twin sister? Because I swear I saw someone, a stunningly very beautiful girl actually, and (say this slowly while making eye contact) she looked exactly just like you. Now, you’ve flattered her.

In the Philippines, I know you can endanger yourself with boyfriends chasing you with a knife but honestly girls would love you for it. Another could be, “It’s seems so real, I think drank too much though…I guess I saw you in my dreams last night.” (Absolutely corny…but it works!)

Be creative. I’m sure you can create more openers along this line of thought but always make sure that it could bridge smoothly into making a Transition. I’ll explain more about them in a moment.

Line 4: I Saw You On Facebook

“Hey, I saw you on Facebook, I think we have some mutual friends.” This one is bulletproof and works very well because virtually every Asian woman on the planet has a Facebook account. It’s entirely believable that you two could have a mutual friend. Don’t spend too much time on deciphering who that mutual friend might be because that’s not the point of this. You now have successfully opened her; now move on to transition.

Line 5: Asian Women Love Phones

If she’s busy texting or talking to someone on the phone, wait till it is done and then use this Opener line: “Excuse me, may I know what kind of phone is that? My friend’s having her birthday next week and this is exactly what she wants.”

She’ll tell you the model of her phone, and then say, “Can I take a look at it real quick?” She’ll hand the phone to you and maybe even lean in closer. Fiddle around the phone and act as if you don’t have a clue to work the gadget and then ask her to show you how to operate the camera. You can say “I’d like to see how good the camera is”.

Have her show you, and then use her phone to take a picture of her. “Just a sec” focus the phone camera on her and just be playful…don’t just snap a picture of her, have her do a ‘model’ pose. She’ll naturally fall for this and comply with you.  Once you take the picture, she’s naturally going to come in close to you so that she can see the result. (Funny thing about Asian Women is that they are very self-conscious, that is why they are so crazy with taking pictures. They may be vain, but we absolutely love them for being so darn hot all the time!)

Next step would be that you take out your own gizmo and show it to her. If it’s less fancy than hers, joke about it and say you haven’t kept up yet since the Middle Ages. Ask for some advice on how to buy the latest trendy gadgets. If your phone is way nicer than hers that would be way cooler since that shows you’re tech savvy.  Now, you’ve taken pictures and you I’m sure you both had fun. Why bring out your phone you ask? Well, she’s got hers in her hand and you’ve got yours in your hand. Result? Easier exchange of phone numbers.

Line 6: The Birthday Gift

Notice a particular detail that accents her appearance: a shoe, handbag, earring or necklace. Then say to her, “Excuse me, that, (fill in the blank) really looks good on you. My friend would absolutely love it for her birthday. Did you get that in forever 21? (A very popular fashion store)”

Now you’re on a roll because you’re bringing up a topic that women naturally enjoy talking about: Shopping. You can ask her where the good places to shop around are and what not, she’ll tell you everything you need to know!

Plus, by showing that you’re thoughtful and generous enough to take the effort to find a gift for your friend, excites a response that most Asian women love.  Asian girls exactly like caring and thoughtful boyfriends like you.

BONUS TIP: If you find yourself struggling to identify ‘interesting details’ about women that you can use to comment on, you’re a loser…you’ve never had a girlfriend all your life.

Just kidding, a helpful exercise would be  to spend a little time, say 30 minutes, in a coffee shop or a place where there a lot of pedestrians. Most girls spend much time in the wardrobe before going to places such as malls or cafes, and so it is definite that you’ll spot an interesting detail for every one of these women. Once this becomes easy to do, you can easily spot a woman with an interesting detail that you can use to comment on and open a conversation.

Although if you see ‘other’ things that makes a woman’s demeanour stand out, comment on that. If one minute you notice her cute purse but also see she has one heck of a melting smile, go for the smile. I’ve opened conversations by commenting on a woman’s smile, or even her ‘positive energy’ if she has a sunny disposition.

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Transitioning

The Opener is your swift access into the conversation. Remember, that its purpose is to make you spontaneous and fresh much rather than the usual “Hi, Hello, what’s your name? How are you?” type kind of questions.

Once you’ve successfully done this, don’t delve too much about the topic you used to open her (clothing, cell phone, learning some phrases in her language, etc.) You can switch to something else.

Transitions are meant to make the Asian girl you have just met to focus on stuff that would get you along together. First, get some basic information about her. Then, project to her that you are indeed a fun and active person with good manners, or a friendly respectful gentleman who has life put in place.

Through this transition process, you will then communicate to her how good of a guy you are. This sets up the connection long term because it will eliminate questions or hesitations that bug her mind.

This way, when you contact her in the future to make plans with her, she won’t be wondering “Is this guy married?” Or, “Is he the type of guy I might want to date, or is he some weird homeless dude who walks around trying to meet women all day?”

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Make a good impression that would last so that she could remember you as the fun guy who gave her wonderful attention so that in the future you’d have no worries hooking up.

Notice the qualities that I just mentioned. You should communicate, or show, that you’re:

• Friendly
• Respectful
• Single
• Have your life together
• Lead a fun, active lifestyle

One more thing I almost forgot to mention, if you are meeting women while in an Asian country you’ll want to let her know the purpose of your visit and how long you are staying (holiday? Business?). The girls would always be curious as to why you chose to spend your time in their country.

By showing to her these elements you can begin to insinuate the desirable qualities that you have as a man. This subtle communication works like ‘planting seeds’ in her mind and if done correctly, your first good impression could go and work a long way in your favor.

Here, let me demonstrate to you the best way on how to communicate the aforementioned qualities to her. Best way to start is to ask her questions about herself and engage in a seemingly thoughtless conversation. Ask her about casual things such as her job, family, career but be interested to what she is saying. Don’t just go blab about yourself and tell her all about your job, family, and career. Naturally, she’ll be curious as well and would want to ask you too. For example, if she asks you where you live, at the right time you can now share about more things about yourself — and this is your chance to casually mention that you live alone in your apartment, or that you own a house, etc.

Note: Don’t ask women to tell you specifically where they live. Just find out the area. If you’re a foreigner and you interrogate the exact address you’ll definitely freak her out.

Showing you’re a fun loving, energetic guy is easy. Ask her what she is going to do with the season or weather (whether it’s summer or Tropical Rain). Then you can mention an interesting place you are planning to go tomorrow, or next weekend, and ask if she’s ever been there. This could be a mountain biking trail, a tourist attraction, a festival, famous shopping district, etc. Mention something sincere as to why you’d love to go that place and she’ll think that you appreciate and respect their culture. Why you’d love to go that specific place could be tied by mentioning your favourite hobbies and interests: like surfing, wakeboarding, fishing or just exploring new and fun places. (it could detrimental as to a stereotype because most Asians see foreigners as wanting to always party and get laid. You want to give the women you meet a different impression.)

Examples

I approach a cute Japanese girl and make my opener about her cool cell phone, and ask about the model, features, etc. Or I open about her very keen “cosplay” fashion sense because of the way she dresses. If she responds to my cell phone opener she’d give me a quick demo on how to operate the gadget and I could transition to the topic of jobs and say, “Wow you’re really good at this, you must work at a cell phone store. You know so much about phones.” She’ll giggle and tell me no. I then ask her real job and compliment her on that. Say If I know that she’s a school teacher, I’d say, “Teaching is a very noble profession and I know you do a great job.” Ask a little more details and then share something brief about your job or profession. The key is to find common ground to your girl’s response from your opener to your transition.

If she responds to your fashion opening, you can tie it to hobbies and interests and say, “You really must enjoy shopping, I could also see you have an artistic eye. Are you an artist?”

To convey something positive about yourself, the best way is to bring up a topic that sets up the conversation both in you and her favor. Ask her a question, know more about her (being genuinely interested in her is showing you are respectful and friendly), and then share something brief about yourself to exhibit a favourable quality. Keep the conversation’s momentum; make it fresh, fun and spontaneous by using creative ways to also talk about other topics. Do this until you have wrapped up the whole package, ‘planted’ the necessary seeds, and have made a good impression.

Remember that you need to ‘soften’ when it comes to dealing with Asian women. Right here is all the tools and guides on how to deal with them. Reprogram yourself a little if you’re used to dealing with Westerners. It’s all explained in SPECIFIC detail right here, go to this the link below and download everything if you want more of the ‘advanced’ stuff

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Pick up is really logical. It is tactical and strategic much like war or business.

The question of pursuing pick up arts or not will also depend on your goals. What are your goals? One night stands? Ego booster lays? Adventure? Being accepted in a “pua brotherhood”? A relationship?

Pick up is for nerds. It is for the people who really wants to understand social dynamics in a blueprint level. It is for the people who want to asks the whys and the hows.

If you don’t know your way with women but just want to get laid then get a hooker. You don’t need to study and know these weird stuffsthat you would even bore you. But if you want to get laid for the reasons that you have the skills and you know how to do it but you currently don’t have them right now then study pick up arts.

Let’s face it. You like girls and of course many also likes to get laid but why do and learn this stuff when you could do without it?!

• You don’t need to memorize all that plenty routines, you just need something to say.
• You don’t need to know about peacocking. You just need to be more adaptable to what looks good and what doesn’t.
• You don’t need to ask “how?” You just need to learn how to lead.

etc etc….

PUA is making things weird for the common man.

If a person asks me to teach someone to have with success of women, I would tell him to…

• Talk not open.
• Have standards instead of DQ.
• Show gratitude and appreciation instead of IOI.
• etc…

Pick up arts is for the nerds. I tell you. If you are not hardcore enough to understand even the tiniest bit of information then don’t even bother learning this stuff and just be THAT normal.

Just learn how to be more social. Learn from the people you see that gets girls.Your brother maybe, your friend, your father or just anyone that can help.

Get more focus in life. Be more adaptive to your environment and change.  Know social norms and customs. Be updated to what’s happening with the world and most of all be comfortable of yourself and set out of your comfort zone.

Believe me I’m not demeaning pick up arts. I’m just stating that people sometimes look low on pick up arts and the people who study them because they don’t know where they are coming from or maybe they don’t understand the situation of the guys who wants to study them.

Some guys just want to have a girlfriend, or maybe they just want to know how to get that one girl that they always like and see at school, at the office, or at the neighborhood. But with lot’s of schools of pick up arts out there, they may get so confused that they may thrash the things that could actually help them.

Now let me recommend to you something that can really help you if you just want to study pick up because you just want that one girl.

Love Systems Triad

The Love systems triad is a simple and step by step way to know how you can really get that one girl. This will take you from the very first step to which goal you like. And this will definitely be easy as a breeze.

There are also other tips, strategies, and techniques within pick up arts that you may not really opt to study. Leave them for the real nerds who really want to try, experiment, and know the stuff. You don’t really need to study the whole of pick up. Sometimes we just only want that one girl and the love systems triad is enough to take you there.

Beneath their sensual, exotic features there is a sense of innocence that we notice almost all Asian women possess that adds up to the mystery and appeal that they have. It’s a thrilling hunt for men to wonder about the possibility that under their unique femininity, these women have sizzling sexualities waiting to be released!

All these seem pleasing and all but wait until you get to hear what Western Women have to say. They’ll probably sneer and respond with disdain to your preference towards Asian Women. The immediate picture that comes into their minds is a “submissive sex slave” ready to cater to your needs and desires. These B.W.W.’s (Bitter Western Women) are opinionated towards Caucasian guys who are into Asian Women and think or wrongly assume that they don’t have the guts to handle a “real woman”.

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If you had any experience with Asian Women, you’d know that this is utterly and completely false. Deep down we feel like our whole masculinity is greatly complemented by their subtlety and softness. It isn’t proving to be more dominating and strong. Rather, the Asian girlfriends I’ve had have been very smart, self-sufficient, opinionated and strong. Yet at the same time, they radiate pure femininity.

This Yin and Yang mix is what makes men go crazy and have their deepest desires fulfilled. Somehow, Asian Women capture the essence of both the desirable qualities of a true woman: one that is of respectful adoration of strong will and independence but on the other, compassion, warmth and gentle submissiveness.

It’s somehow tailor-fit to completely complement us and make us really feel what we are born to feel! It’s also the most essential qualities in a relationship that could make us feel good and happy or even secure about ourselves (just ask any emasculated husband nagged constantly by their bickering, overbearing wives).

This isn’t any weird abnormality or disorder at all. I would even venture to say that you’re enlightened! You chart virgin territories in hopes to find that one woman that could truly fulfil all your desires. You take risks and you dig for answers.

On the other hand, your peers settle for any woman that will willingly accept them for who they are (this usually means that they are both as equally boring as the other).  The reason is because they are convinced that they need godlike looks and wealth to be able to date a very gorgeous and hot woman. They blur this notion and justify and say that he and her partner are “soul mates” and are predestined to join hearts in this one lifetime. Little does his partner know, that his man has aching hurts and pains that they can’t find in her.

Do you think that many of these guys who claim their partners to be “soul mates” actually are truly happy or fulfilled? You know what I think? Let’s just say that I have a lot of married friends who beg their wives for the chance to hang out with me. They excuse themselves to go to Asia “for business” but the real reason is that they want to meet up with me so that I could hook them up with beautiful Asian Women.

The reason why my friends go through great lengths to just be able to experience the Culture of Asian Women is because we know that deep down there is this indelible gene trait that all men possess: it’s that desire to be able to have someone that could make them feel and harness their masculinity to its full extent. Asian women are the rare females who answer the need of this special longing like no other.  

We may be unaware of the reasons and explanations of why we feel this way towards Asian Women. But knowing the valid and important reasons brings to awareness our own rightful conscience of what it really means to feel and be like a true man.

I will give the top 10 most important traits that embody the reasons why we feel strong sexual attraction towards this female kind. (Note, these characteristics do not apply to all Asian women. These are the ideal traits that you expect from an Asian woman of high caliber.)

Their Sex Appeal is Strong

The striking qualities of the Asian Women have an irresistible taste towards most, if not, Caucasian men.  Everything from head to foot, height and weight, makes the Asian package one of the loveliest females you could ever find. From their silky hair, flawless skin, petite, hard bodies, and exotic Oriental features.

To add a little more insight into this, the Asian face (particularly the women with more Oriental features) seems to display less expression and emotion than that of Caucasian women. In contrast with Caucasian women who tend to be very outspoken when it comes to voicing out all their nagging errs and concerns (which we are not really in the mood to always know about), Asian women are more deceptively charming and have their way of masking their true feelings which makes the whole hunt of the game more exciting.

We men like the thrill of being constantly on the chase of finding good game which explains why the air of mystery and unpredictability that Asian Women convey make us frolicking for more. We are hard wired to hunt.

Also, Asian women display the vibrance of youth. They live in tropical seasons and climates and have a nutrition that is mostly composed of fruits and vegetables. They seem to age very much slower than most Caucasian women who develop lines and wrinkles very early on even at their early 30’s. Asian remain strikingly beautiful and age gracefully.

They are very approachable.

In my experience, Asian women have a predisposition to be more kind and gentle towards most other types of women. No doubt about it. Simply walk up and compliment her by saying “You’re so pretty” in their native language and your awkward accent and it’s more than enough to spark laughter and a happy conversation. On the other hand, try saying that to a stern faced looking Caucasian woman and you’d probably be answered back with a dirty look (or worse).

The fact is that Asians in general are more peaceful beings.  It is in their culture to smile and be fond towards anyone, even a stranger. Try going to the Philippines’ provinces and you’d be surprised by their warmth and acceptance.

Thailand is known as the “Land of Smiles” because people smile all the time. (In many parts of one’s culture, a “smile” can signal or signify a lot of different things—I’ll explain these more in my book “Secrets of Dating Asian Women”. But don’t take it too seriously; generally a smile would do you much good in any of these places and it most certainly beats being around serious, frowning and frumpy Western Women!)

Try visiting the streets, public markets and shopping malls of Bangkok, Jakarta or Manila—you’ll think it’s every man’s dream come true: lots of friendly, hot Asian Women.

In contrast, the hot women in America frown and immediately almost put you off in order to assert them not being bothered by meeting anyone new. Unless you can prove otherwise, it takes a lot of effort to get to make Western Women open up.

Asian women also have a hard time opening up. But unlike Americans, they are in essence, shy. Don’t be discouraged, in fact, it usually springs out from their great concern that they’d need to be polite, kind and friendly.

They are not at all difficult to approach or strike up a conversation. Crucially at this point, the key is knowing how to build their interest and attraction towards unveiling their shy exterior. The program below will show you how to exactly do that.

Secrets of Dating Asian Women

They are excellent homemakers, and take pride in managing the household.

Asian women are brought up to take great pride in nurturing the family by showing them their capability of being of loving service to their kin. They take this great pride in managing and cleaning their household. Everything is organized and clean: meals are prepared with care, husband always wears clean clothes, and children are well fed and neatly dressed (Unless your Asian sweetheart is from a rich family that employed servants, I’m pretty sure she was helping out with household duties starting at a young age).

They take great pride in running the role of being the nurturer and care giver of the household by making sure your home is clean and all the members of the family are well fed and taken care of.

They have a prosperous sense of culture and heritage.

Many Western people are struck in awe by the endless fascination they get from the Asian cultures. The colourful, rich and historical accounts of tradition that molded a nation’s past and culture has become integral as well to how men and women from the Orient became who they are right now.

Take to example, the Japanese.

They are the most disciplined and successful Asian race that has dominated almost every arena or field of endeavour: be it Science breakthroughs, ingenuity, Business, Art, etc.

This is what makes so many Westerners try to adapt their rich sense of culture and try to make it their “own”: i.e. you see lots of Caucasian put tattoos of Chinese and Japanese characters on their bodies, thinking it makes them look hip and “spiritual” — even though they’ve never even visited those countries? (Very lame, if you ask me…).

They have high respect and deep regard for Asians, or Asian women for that fact, who have a rich and historic culture.

Realizing that it would take forever to get to know each other because of your mutual rich backgrounds, can be a huge advantage in the relationship process. You, the man, who is fond of discovering all imagined truths and traditions of your Asian girlfriend’s culture, would be enamoured by the countless opportunities you can learn from their: beliefs, traditions, music, cuisine, movies, arts, and history. This isn’t as likely as when you date a woman who grew up in your neighbourhood next door. Unlike being with an Asian Woman, you two will never grow bored as you continually find new things to explore each and every day.

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Asian women give high value to relationships and have unconditional love for their families and friends.

Unlike most of their counterparts in Western countries, one of the most attractive aspects of Asian Women is that they put tremendous value on their families and relationships. You could say that is the core value of who they inherently are. Learn how to choose the right partner, and she’ll take into deep respect the relationship you have both invested on. She’ll be faithful to you and would keep the relationship in harm’s way from ever suffering from the brink of separation. These are one of the factors, which you can say, men have always wanted with his mate; it brings out the best of their stewardship, being the protector and provider of the family.

How would you feel if I’d say that there is a country where divorce was not implemented in Church and State?

In the Philippines, for example, such a thing as Divorce does not exist.

Surprised? Filipinas are raised to believe that when they marry, it is for life.

Even if you take into consideration more developed Asian countries that have an option for divorce, still the weight and gravity of tradition and culture labels such a thing as a shameful last resort. Unlike in Western countries, where marriage is more of a status symbol and is regarded as an inconvenience (did you know that they say that they’d much rather take care of a dog, than a child? What’s wrong with the world these days?), there attitude isn’t until “til death do us part.” It’s more like, “Let’s give it a try, and if it’s not working out six months from now, I’ll take your house and half your money, dumbass…”

Don’t be too excited yet, because again I warn you that not all Asian Women are as committed and passionately loyal like this. Plenty are also warped psychos who are out there to use you and parasite your money.  I’m only speaking in general ideal terms and situations. Good news is, can you learn how to spot those Asian Women who have the ideal traits and characteristics you have always dreamed of? The answer is a resounding YES! And in the program that I am going to teach you, you will learn how.

We believe in mutual attraction.

A big contributor to their motivation of why Western foreigners flock to the Orient paradise of Asian Women is because they have been told that the opposite party are as attracted and as fascinated as they are to them. This “mutual fascination” is an appealing idea that feels like a sigh of instant relief for guys who are tired of expending lots of effort to date Western Women.

An explanation of why this is true is evident in the fact that many Asian women desire light skinned children. Obviously, your white or light skin has almost a built-in automatic attraction towards them. They see you as high status, well groomed and educated and have this hard wired instinct to produce children with the like traits.

Difference in Race is insignificant

Western culture has taken a long hard time to accept the unity and peace of the coherence of different interracial races. It has been a breakthrough, in all its good forms and aspects, that America has finally had the morale to elect a Black President to govern the country. We can say that the issue of racism has been almost obliterated in the society and culture of most Westerners. But, we can never deny that the sheer massive population of such a country still has its citizens who are uneasy when it comes to interracial relationships.

For example, a white man marrying a black woman, or a black man marrying a white woman, is still considered unacceptable (or at least, inappropriate) in the minds of many Westerners. This isn’t so much of a fuss however when it comes to Westerners hooking up with Asians. It has been assimilated into their culture as well for a while now, and it has taken acceptance into the many precepts of Western civilization.

I’m not saying that Asian Women are superior above any race. That most certainly is not the truth. In fact in most cases, they are even considered neutral and harmless to society. Crossing the society’s “racial divide” and avoiding all sorts of conflict and shame can certainly be of great help if you choose a woman who is not of your own race.

The reality is that interracial relationships between Western culture and Asian culture have become very common in society. The only difficulty that most people perceive to be is that the differences of background, upbringing and culture would make a “culture clash” and create difficulties. Optimistically speaking, this wouldn’t be an issue at all if they made it one. In fact, it could even add more depth and dimension to make the relationship more interesting.

(However, there are exceptions. One particular common case is that if you marry a very poor Asian who comes from a very poor family. You may be expected so much to provide financial support for her, her parents and relatives, her grandparents, cousins, aunts, uncles, nephews and nieces. It’s ridiculous but I’ll talk more about this in the “Secrets of Dating Asian Women book“.)

But as far as the difference of culture and social upbringing is the concern, this should not present any problems. Tell any of your friends or family if they have any issue when it comes to you loving someone who is an Asian, to wake up and get with the times to broaden their horizons. (I find these people have either the best intentions for you—if so they should support you—or, that they are only jealous of change and uncertainty and you must have the kindness to recommend them to read my books and articles to save their miserable uneventful lives).

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Asian Women are spiritually grounded.

They have principles and have a good upbringing as a result of family ties and tradition that are further solidified with belief of their religion and spirituality. Many Asian women take it seriously and highly regard Spirituality as a respect for a Higher Being. These makes Western culture lack the peace, unity and spiritual contentment that many Asian civilizations have in place. Therefore, many Asian women tend to be less most likely to fret over doing some “soul searching” as to the fact that they have religion and God in place. Simply for them, the only thing that would be lacking once God and Family are secure is to have a future family with children and a spouse to love and take care of.

Being Hardworking Is In Their Nature.

Obviously by know you have realized that I take into consideration the contrasting qualities of Westerners and Asians. Honestly, I am quite particular when it comes to this trait of an Asian Woman, because for me it pretty much sums up the package.

Asian women are hardworking. No doubt about it. They were raised by elders to till the soil until it bears fruit and they have always believed that there isn’t anything as a free lunch.

To give you a modern example of how hardwork and dedication for family really comes into play when it comes to Asian culture is the fact that many immigrants strive to earn a living in other countries in order to send money home and sustain their families. A little too dependent if you ask me, but that’s really how the way Asians love their kin.

You’d want to have an Asian Woman who has a high value for work ethic and hardwork. In this way, you’d make sure she ain’t any spoiled “princess” once you marry her.

Physical Beauty is highly regarded.

Unlike many Western Women who behave differently once they are married, Asian Women always take into consideration the effort and maintenance it takes to be always presentable and beautiful to his man. If Asians are married wives you’d observe that the label “mom” does not really affect much of how they dress and carry themselves. They go to the salon and gym regularly and always keep up to par with the trends and styles of fashion. There is almost no difference at all in appearance when you see that MILF’s daughter.

(If you’re still wondering why Western women have negative things to say about Western guys who marry Asian women…can you say “jealousy?”)

Knowing the different factors that make Asian Women the kind of girl or woman that we could ever fantasize for is crucial to your success in making them respond: physically and emotionally to your ATTRACTION triggers.

It has taken me years to realize and put all the puzzle pieces together but boy am I glad that I finally got it all glued in place. It took me literally lots of hard work, experiment and YEARS of practice and dedication to be able to perfect my asian women attraction program.

I know of no other resource that puts it more plain and simple and make you understand so that you could become a skillful MASTER in powerfully attracting ASIAN women.

This program will give you a core on basic and advance strategies on how you can think and behave like a man can naturally attract Asian Women. Read more about it below.

Attract Asian Women

Recognise what they enjoy

Sometimes saying I love you is as simple as recognising what your partner enjoys and surprising them with it. This could come in the form of their favourite meal, their favourite TV programme or even arranging for them to see their friends without their knowledge. By arranging something specifically for them, your partner will recognise that you have thought about their wants and needs and gone out of your way to make the effort.

Surprise them

The element of surprise is as important in love as it is in hunting. Surprising someone with a romantic gesture, like a flower delivery of roses arriving randomly at their workplace, is one of the best ways to make it all the more special. Love is spontaneous and spontaneity makes the feelings all the more romantic. Surprising your partner with a candlelit dinner at home is a great way to encourage love and happiness within a relationship.

Make it personal

Love is a personal thing so it is important to make it personal. This goes beyond getting a personal inscription on the back of an iPad, because this is too easily done. When gifting an iPad, for example, it is better to set it up for your partner and have it ready to play a personal video to them. By having a video ready for them, it demonstrates a love and care beyond the norm and it will make your ‘I love you’ all the more special. It will also create a greater personal connection to the item which otherwise it is just another Apple product.

Plan ahead

There is little more romantic than things which have been planned well in advance. Booking a table in a restaurant is one thing but the more planning something takes the better it is. For example, arranging pebbles on a beach saying ‘I love you (name)’ and then ‘stumbling’ across them with your partner is a fantastic way to demonstrate your love to them. This seemingly casual preparation is all the more romantic because it is unexpected.

Create a chain

Creating a chain of romance is an incredibly difficult and intrinsic process but I can guarantee that it will be worth it. A chain of romance relies upon numerous interlinking surprises. This works best when you can ‘stumble upon’ something good to do so it takes some serious planning to lead between the events without giving anything away.

Utilise trickery

Diversion tactics are a great way to increase the impact of a gesture when it finally arrives. This is a familiar process with the use of surprise parties but it can easily be done through misdirection. Stating that you are going to do something less exciting than the reality, will make the actual occurrence all the more exciting for your partner.

If you find your relationships having ups and downs or just want it to have that lasting and sustainable attraction that keeps relationship advice then you can check out some more tips on the link below.

Relationship Management

As for my last post of Online Dating: Online to Offline Responsiveness I told you guys the advantages of using pick up routines such as NEGS and or IODs.

Do guys really need to use that? Can’t they just walk up to a woman and say what they really feel and in good faith wait for her to gladly accept so that they can live happily ever after?

Sorry, things don’t go that way.

Women much as like as men, also have issues. We may tend to have anti social personalities, boring lives, neediness, selfishness insecurities and so much more.

The thing is we play so much value on those negative things that we don’t see the beauty of enriching our lives by the people who come to it.

This is how pick up arts was born. Men who just wants to get IN to the lives of women were rejected and thus thought of ways to get past through it.

It is ambiguous to its user but still not

Much like technology, the means of pick up arts coincides of those who practice it.

Most would want lays, most would just want to experience it, most would just like to have a long term relationship/ a gf.

You see, when a girl agress to have sex with the man but in the end finds out that that guy may be a pua or some sort or whatever, some may feel that they are a victim. They may feel that they were manipulated or some sort.

No one can make you feel or tell you that you are a victim unless you decide to say so.

Unless a person is raped, it is not grounds that the person was manipulated or deceived just to have a sexual relationship with the partner.

Some pick up routines are like embedded with hypnotic statements and such but that’s b.s. If a person decides to not engage or participate on it then it is a choice. But if a person or a girl engages with a sexual relationship with the guy  then it is with agreement and it is of her own decision. It is not due to that wizzy pozzy statements that the guy made. It can be a suggestion and it is still up to the person whether to accept it or not.

I don’t use those hocus pocus routines but I use simple routines so that I could also pave my way into the girls life. I am not there to just play or anything, I am there to really get to know her.

Pick up arts is not manipulative.  Routines are suggestions in which people may want to participate in or not. It is a tool that can be used to break that barrier between our negativity and delivering us to openness.

Always keep in mind that getting rid of every trace of doubt in a woman’s mind is crucial to getting her to your bed.

This is because women will think of any form of excuse to avoid you when they don’t feel comfortable being with you.

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Well, here’s something you’d want to take note of when dating women.

Offering to pick up your date on the first day is definitely a no when you just met her. This is very understandable because most people would want to disclose their address to people they barely know.

Another reason is that she might have encountered a guy that stalked her or at least knew someone who’s experienced this.

So don’t jump into any conclusions that she’s very eager to get picked up at her home like what you see in the movies.

Now what you’re going to do here is to suggest that you meet up with her in front of your place. Settle on an agreement on what time to meet so you two will go out to the venue together. This place could be at a coffee shop, a restaurant, a bar, etc.

This approach would work mainly because of these reasons:

A) She won’t have to ask for directions on how to get to your date spot and wouldn’t have to go through the hassle of getting lost.

B) She might want to get an idea of what your home looks like. Well, technically, you just gave her a chance to check out your place by offering to meet her at the front so we’re all good.

So what do you do next when your date shows up at the front of your home?

Well here’s the trick, go ask her whether or not she wants to go along with you on your ride, or if she’d want to take her own and follow your car to the venue. Whichever option she takes is irrelevant as you’re still be going with her either way.

The next thing you’ll have to do is act like you need to go back to your house for a sec to get some stuff.

Then go INVITE her to hang around in your house for a bit while you act like you’re looking for something.

Now that she’s at your living room or whatever part of your house, you’ve achieved an IMPORTANT milestone by getting her to familiarize herself inside your home.

This is very crucial because at the end of the day, after things go smoothly at your date, you’ll have an easier time in getting her to come over.

You’ve given her a good impression of your pad (given that it is neat and clean) and she’ll feel a lot more comfortable when heading back to your home.

Having done this tons of times before I can attest that you can get laid more often and I can also assure you that this makes a difference when trying to pull a woman to your house. So don’t hesitate to ask her to hang around your home a bit before the date.

Let me give you some facts about my previous exploits in getting women to come over:

• On all the dates that I didn’t do this, the probability of having her come over would be around 48%.

• And whenever I use this simple technique, the probability of her coming over would increase drastically at around 92%! Whenever this happens, I’d know what to do next. (My way of closing is all covered in the Persuasion Program)

The key here is getting rid of her UNCERTAINTY.

This is a big deal for women, unlike us guys who would go on great lengths to get laid with a smoking hot girl.

So girls are most likely to make up lame excuses to avoid going to your place just because you didn’t let them familiarize themselves at your home. Women need assurance that your home looks neat and is a place that they can picture themselves getting comfortable in.

Getting her to take a peek of your home’s interiors will give you a solid chance of closing the deal after your date.

Still not convinced? Well this is just a small part of the things we have in store for you. You’ll get to learn tons of techniques that will help you become more successful with women and will make you get laid more often. Just download our exclusive attraction and seduction stuff here:

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I love this. Other people may bash on how one can pick up girls online. I’ll say just try it out. Other people would also just try online sarging without even having an experience in picking up women in real life. I’d say stop and first solve the problem. Learn how to seduce and attract women in in real life!

My thing with online sarging is that it is easy. Plus, I can have profiles of large amount of girls in so little time. And yes! they are profiled! So that I can already have a grasp of who they are and the things that they do or do not do with their lives.

There’s plenty of fish alright, and I like it. I can get 10 numbers and just a couple of text, be in bed with them in no time. I like it for short simple casual fun.

What if you could do it too? Pick Up Girls online. Imagine just sitting at the comfort of your own home. And just letting girls message you and try to meet up with you. You can get as many dates as you want with this system. And you can do this without even taking a sweat! With this you can definitely get laid more often than not.

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Push button dating is the work of Race De Priest. Race did countless experiments on how to pick up girls online so you can be sure that he knows his stuff. Also I vouch for that guy. He taught me a couple of tricks or so and that I can say that the way he can pick up girls online is legit.

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 By the way, we have a couple of discussions where Race DePriest and his Partner Christian Hudson discuss more in detail the different parts of Push Button Dating and how you can pick up girls online. You can check it out on the related articles below.

Here’s where you can get instant access to Push Button Dating where you can know about the different strategies in meeting girls online.

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If you’re a local aspiring guy in the Philippines who wants to know how to pick up girls online, you might like this: Advance Techniques for Men.

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The Tao of Badass is a revelation of the author’s personal experiences with women: his frustrations, his thoughts, his emotions, his fears, his weaknesses, his inability to win the ladies he wanted and most importantly his self-made strategies that finally gave him the edge over women and overcome his weaknesses when surrounded by them.  In this book, Joshua Pellicer constantly proves to you that nothing is ever impossible when it comes to attracting women.  It emphasizes that attracting women can be easily learned if given the right techniques.  This book further teaches you how to skillfully learn the ups and downs of winning the girl you want and teaching you how to make those women want you in return.

Pellicer’s Tao of Badass contains all the necessary tools a man wants to own prior to plunging into the world of women.  Joshua Pellicer makes himself a living proof and firmly stands on the premise that attracting women can be a learned skill.  And he has put into the Tao of Badass all the right knowledge and information he can gather and think of on how to learn this skill.  Of course, you don’t want to miss this chance of knowing what you have wanted for so long a time, the ability to attract women and the skill to absolutely win them at the shortest time possible.

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With Tao of Badass, you will learn:

• How to win women and pass that ‘Friend Zone’ most men dreaded and get that ‘more-than-a-friend’ relationship.
• The secret quality tips on making women want YOU over those wealthy men.
• The ways in which to become confidently attractive to women.
• The different ways on how to respond to women and how to attractively manipulate them to flirt and become interested in you.
• The ten ways to know whether a woman is attracted to you even if she says she’s not.
• How to make women think you are attractively different from the rest of the men.
• Tips on how not to turn-off women but instead be genuinely interested in you.
• How to cope up with your weaknesses when it comes to women.
• The different attractive ways to control yourself when you are surrounded with women.
• What real confidence is and how to use this confidence to win your right woman.
• To be always ready to pass the “tests” that women usually pass upon to men.
• The ways to look hot and sensual before any woman’s eyes.
• Mind-setting techniques to make women want you uncontrollably.
• The tricks to make your woman be loyal to you ever.
• The difference between two body languages: Positive and Dominant, and how not to confuse in using them to communicate your woman to avoid rejection from them.
• The different phases of women psychology and how to avoid them to cool-off from the start of your acquaintance.
• How to make a woman swear to herself that she wants to have you as her man.
• How to mind-read women through their actions and bring them to want you sexually and intimately.
• The secrets of making a woman open up to you.
• The ways to use just body language to get the message through to the woman you want.
• How to make the woman of your dream want to stay by you forever, and a lot more.

These are just some of the things you will learn from the Tao of Badass.  And there are more things you will learn once you have the book.  This book will surely get you successfully to where you are heading: Getting that woman you want.

Bonus Books

Along with the Tao of Badass, Joshua Pellicer also offers you 4 Bonus Books which will bring you knowledge to understand about:

Tao of Badass Bonuses (Click Image to Know More)

• Never Get Cheated On – This gives you the edge.  You will learn from this bonus book how to set your mind to feel that you aren’t cheated by her even once.
• Monogamy vs Polyamory – This will be about dating multiple women in one setting without any issue nor conflicts among them.
• Guide To Breaking Up – A simple but exact steps to follow on how to end a relationship without getting anyone into a painful state.
• Escaping The Friend Zone – This teaches you the right technique to win your woman and bring her to a more-than-a-friend relationship.  This is always what you wanted, right?

These all will be yours to keep and guide you through your journey with women when you take a copy of Tao of Badass.  With Joshua Pellicer’s personal guide to you, you will go real far but on the right track to get what you always dreamed of.  You will never regret winning over the girl you want, and not just one girl…you can have multiple of them without getting entangled.  You will only get what you wanted.  That is for sure.

Don’t delay;  Time is just too gold.  If you start early, you will get to your destination early too.  So, give yourself the greatest gift you can find and treat yourself with a breeze.  Afterall, you will be finding the right woman for you and you will be experiencing those time you always dreamed of: be with lots of women and win them according to your whims. Get a copy of the Tao of Badass now.

Joshua Pellicer’s Tao Of Badass

p.s. Check out this cool and Free Infographic on How To Talk To Girls

Alpha Sexual Power by Carlos Xuma is a complete and perfect guide for a man who is sexually driven but doesn’t know where to begin and how to do it.  Carlos Xuma, a long time dating coach expert for guys has created this Alpha Sexual Power which introduces helpful formulas on how to win a woman and make her sexually desirous in just a split of time.  It explains men’s psychology in terms of getting a woman to his passion, a manner of creating sexual attraction towards women and having that striking sexual confidence.

With Alpha Sexual Power, you will learn the most 3 important things on how you will do about getting that woman you desire:  sexual confidence, sexual attraction and sexual experience, which will give you sexual power and dominance!  The author assured you being a very learned and experienced coach, the moment you gain this Sexual Power and Dominance you will have everything you need and want in a woman and in the same manner your woman will never say No to you and will never cheat you, ever!!!

Everything you need to know and learn about getting things done excitingly and sexually in any woman is being introduced and thoroughly explained with clear illustrations on what exactly should be done in this Alpha Sexual Power Package.  It contains a complete system which you will learn to become an ALPHA MAN and become sexually powerful and dominant.

Alpha Sexual Power includes several important learning tools and systems which you can learn to enhance your ability and interest in getting the woman you want and be sexually attractive with you.  The Alpha Sexual Power makes you evaluate yourself sexually, brings you to understand what women needs, make you realize what you lack in your sexual urge and teach you the very techniques that will give you a bullseye in your target:  Get the woman you want and make her want you!

Because by nature you are sexually driven but for some reasons you have a bit of difficulty in having that natural power work in you, Carlos Xuma has included in his Alpha Sexual Power System, the following very helpful offers:

Complete Sexual Confidence and Mastery With Women – Here, you will learn the essentials of meeting the woman you like and getting her through all the way to her bedroom.  It provides you clear steps in how to be there successfully.

• Volume 1: Alpha Sexual Power Primer, lets you evaluate your sexual weaknesses which you thought weren’t there.  It lets you discover your inner wants in woman and what you believe in having them. By knowing all these, you will blow them away and brace yourself to be free from mistakes then you can start to build that unstoppable confidences which will lead you to become an ALPHA MAN, with total sexual confidence and getting the girl of your dream want you more and more.

• This is what Volume 2: Sexual Confidence, is all about.  Here, you will learn and discover what Carlos defines as “the secrets to sexual power and authority over women.”  You will learn how to determine and get rid of those things that confuses you.  You will find out those negative things in you yet are irresistibly attractive to women, and learn how to deal with them successfully.  You will gain a lot of things here; all of them lead you to a pedestal in your woman’s mind, which was always your dream.

• Volume 3: Sexual Psychology, entirely teaches you how to understand the sexual psychology of a woman.  It gives you a total understanding of how woman reacts, feels, responds and a lot more.  This will help you determine how to get them sexually attracted to you.  Here, women’s sexual desires and pleasures are being revealed, including the “Dark Secrets of Attraction,” as what the author describes it.

• Volume 4: Sexual RoadMap, is just as important as the other volumes.  Here, this will put your ideals into action.   This will guide you like a road map, leading to what you have been dreaming and wanting.  Your road to success – you are almost there.  Take this road map and get the right direction – from the first time you approach your girl all the way to the sealed four-walls of your room or hers.  Sure tips are provided by Carlos and right steps on how to go through the road are given, making things more sexually exciting.

• Volume 5: Sexual Communication.  This is a unique and different way of communication.  The author here simply means communicating with your girl or the woman you want in a very sexual way.  Obviously, the communication entails one which is “more than a friend” not “just a friend.”  Here, you will learn how to turn on women through romantic fantasies.  Just great.  The more sexually confident you are, the more sexually attractive you can be and the more sexual communication you can make.  These will tie up all in a chain reaction.

• Volume 6: Sexual Performance may mean to be completely sexual in everything. Here, everything is revealed and taught.  You will discover all your sexual worth as you learn how to completely fulfill your role as a MAN in the BEDROOM!  Learn how to make your woman sexually comfortable, sexually safe and sexually satisfied – completely blown away – in bed with a man like you.  You will learn how to make your woman beg you to have sex with her more and more.  Make her forget how many times she got those very satisfying and wild orgasms with you and crave for more.

Isn’t that too exciting?  You will be going to your first sex date or will again be doing that wonderful thing with a woman you want without drama or going through complicated things?  Well, all these sexually satisfying expertise can be learned with ease and success in Alpha Sexual Power.  Plus, you will get bonus videos, audios and ebooks from Carlos Xuma to give you more advantages and develop more your sexual urges and be successful with your woman.

Here are some of the Alpha Sexual Power bonuses that you’d surely love…

Alpha Sexual Power Bonuses

So, give yourself a break.  Forget those trying and frustrating times when you want to be laid out but ended up hating yourself for messing up with the girl you want.  Brace yourself up, decide on one thing: Try Carlos Xuma’s Alpha Sexual Power and be sexually confident, attractive and get that experience most men want to boast.  After you have all these, you will realize you have that SEXUAL POWER AND DOMINANCE in YOU and you will be able to get what you wanted from your woman.  Try now, and be the alpha man, enjoy, and have fun.  Women, are now within your reach.

Alpha Sexual Power

Pick Up Girls at the Gym

You’re goal is to  maybe get her mobile number or better you can invite her out for a cup of coffee or small meal after the session at the gym.

The gym is a very good location to pick up women. But of course you primary goal is to workout to achieve a a more well rounded healthy body. Picking up women in the gym may come as second.

The gym is really great because if you see a hot girl there you can be somehow sure you will see her again. If you haven’t gotten a chance to approach her during that time, you can be sure to have a chance next time she goes. Also, the hottest girls go to the gym; they like to keep that figure of theirs.

You must also make sure to get things right the first time. You must know how to have a rejection proof approach with them. Imagine if you’d approach a girl and you maybe creeped her out then that would be awkward seeing her again next time. Make sure to know your way, take your time, you can even catch her up on the parking lot if you don’t like people seeing you approach her.

How To Approach Girls At The Gym

Create some excuse so that you can be by the machine next to her. If you have noticed her routine for a while, you can try to  precede her to the machine where she would be at and say.

“Hi! I’m actually just thinking if I can handle this machine or I’d collapse if I did. Haha.”

Keep conversations short. No one likes to talk when their exhausted from the routines that they are doing.

“You know what… I’m curious. Why is is that on a great weather like this we are all running on these machines and not on the beautiful scenery outside?” (Smile)

Heading to the gym can be really a good way to stay fit and healthy, aside from that it is also a good place to meet women. You should also keep your options open there are a lot of places where you can meet, approach and pick up women. Take for example a Yoga Class. The ratio of guy to girl there is insane.

If you’d like to know more ways on how you can pick up women on just about anywhere and anytime outside of bars and clubs then you should check out the link below.

Know How To Approach Women Without Rejection

Working out also gets a lot of fun when you get the results you AREN’T EVEN looking for. Know the exact physical traits that attract women. Go here: Adonis Effect

You can check out the posts on B4UTXTHER were we discuss how to text your way with women. You can see the links below.

Posts

• What Is Inside Race de Priest’s B4UTXTHER?
• Introduction to B4UTXTHER: Know How To Text Girls
• B4UTXTHER Part 2: The Fundamentals Of Texting A Girl You Like
• Love Systems PUA Super Conference 2012
• B4UTXTHER Part 3: How To Get A Girl’s Number?
• Avoid Awkward Silences When On A Date
• B4UTXTHER Part 4: First Text To A Girl
• Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Through Text Messaging
• B4UTXTHER Part 5: Techniques and Tactics on How To Flirt By Text
• B4UTXTHER Part 6: Making Her Meet Up With You
• Review Of Text Your Ex Back of Michael Fiore
• B4UTXTHER Part 7: What To Do If The Girl Flakes
• B4UTXTHER Part 8: What To Do If The Girl Does Not Reply
• How To Get An Asian Girlfriend
• Turning to Online Dating
• How To Be A Player When You’ve Got No Money
• Where To Meet Asian Women
• A Brief Guide to Dating Events
• Get Asian Women To Date
• How to Create a More Exciting Dinner Date
• Smooth Operators – Pickup Lines From Hollywood
• How To Deal With Rejection – 7 Techniques To Keep Your Head In The Game
• 5 Body Language Secrets to Use Right Away
• Love Systems PUA Super Conference 2012 | What’s Inside?
• How To Connect With Women

Beyond Pick Up Mastermind

We won’t have our Free Philippine Seduction Summit this summer but what we’ll have is the Beyond Pick Up Mastermind.

The Beyond Pick Up mastermind is a gathering of aspiring people who want to achieve success in the areas of lifestyle, wealth and women. The class will be held on sessions for the whole month of may.

We want the mastermind to be a quality and productive gathering so we did limit this to 10 people. If you’d like to hop in for future free mastermind class join us at our facebook groups here. You may also want to join our forums to discuss and share your insights and learnings and your questions regarding pick up or beyond pick up. You can register here.

Free Stuff

We like giving away free stuff so just click on the links below and you’ll get instant access to them. You would be reading them seconds from now.

• Swat Guide – Secret Weapons and Attraction Tactics Guide
• Physical Escalation Report – Carlo’s Xuma’s Shark fin soup Report

From the way you carry yourself, to how you exude confidence with your communication skills and charm—originality has everything to do with every bit of your personality.

However, let me draw your attention right now to the other side of the equation.

Almost every stud out there is out to get the same chic as you, right? Making a unique impression, coupled with your originality, is very crucial to your success.

If you fail to make an impression, she’s going to automatically give you the cold shoulder and throw you into the dumps along with the other 56 boneheads who tried to make a move to her. She’ll be nice enough to thank you for paying for her drink. But after a while you’ll hear her making up excuses to get away from you boring her to death. If she’s a real hot babe, you’d much rather be kicked in the groin than to fail and be dejected in this kind of set up. You tried, but you fail miserably. Fortunately, there’s a solution.

Create an instant bond or connection with women

Your objective is to get her to talk freely and openly to you:  catch her attention at once, and get her willingness to share information about her.

How To Connect With Women (click image to know)

Once you are able to obtain valuable information about your lady, use it to establish common ground by relating with similar feelings, experiences or interests. This is called, having good ‘rapport’.

First, you need something effective that could connect you instantaneously to whomever girl you talk to.

To accomplish this, I have a favorite conversational tactic that could be so effective that it could almost seem as a no-brainer.

Cold Reading

Cold Reading is a great tactic in knowing how to connect with women.

It is a technique to make the other person feel like you understand what makes them tick, and what they’re going through, without them telling you. Usually these involve making statements to her as if you are “reading” what’s on her mind.

The instructors have been working for months already on the program, and it’s literally the best dating training for men that I’ve ever been part of. Here’s just a quick summary:

1. 20+ Main Stage sessions (see agenda)

• Each led by a worldwide expert on the topic.
• Tons of variety. Anything from approaching, attraction, and how to get a girlfriend to seduction, friends with benefits, and threesomes.
• Personalized to your skill level (Fundamentals, Intermediate, Advanced).
• See clips from last year’s main stage sessions here.

2. 20+ Practice Room sessions (see agenda)

• Don’t just learn the theory – practice it in the breakout rooms until you can use it without thinking. That’s the secret to natural game.
• Work with the same top instructors that are on main stage.
• Choose what YOU need for YOUR sticking points – from approaching to kino, from trigger words to never running out of things to say, and more.
• Gold and Platinum attendees get a copy of their performance and feedback on video so you can refer back to it later.

3. Infield Training

• The BEST way to learn – live. Have the best dating coaches in the world as your personal wingmen to watch and help you pick up, and tell you exactly what you did right and wrong.
• Watch instructors and advanced students using the same techniques so you can see exactly how they should work.
• Learning has never been so fun – pick up some of the most beautiful women in the world in some of the hottest Vegas VIP nightspots.

4. Personal Mentoring

• Consultation at the beginning of Pua Super Conference to help you choose the instructors, sessions, and path that is right for YOU and YOUR goals.
• Gold and Platinum attendees get a personal instructor mentor throughout your program.
• Full access to all instructors throughout SuperConference (including me).
• Complimentary lifetime access to the Love Systems Lounge for all of your ongoing questions and support.
• Pre- and post- phone calls with me and other instructors before and after your program to make sure you meet all of your goals.

That’s just a fraction of what we’ll teach, and we can’t wait to share it with you. The early bird deadline is this weekend, so hurry because there are only a few spots left and I’d hate for you to miss out. Click on the link Below

Pua Super Conference

p.s. Forgot to say, we just added a couple more videos to the SuperConference Video Library including one from Keys to the VIP winner Derek Cajun and one from me on how to get good at attracting women.