Beyond Pick Up

A Question coming from our facebook groups. Our Facebook Group has a privacy setting of “Secret” so one can only be invited from the inside. You can request for an invite, just go to our facebook page (Pick up artist Philippines) and leave a comment. You can also post your questions at our forums (http://beyondpickup.net/forum).

Guys. Question. Let’s say there is a very hot babe that caught your eye and you really want her. You really fucking like her and you really want to know her.

I understand that you should be outcome independent like you don’t give a damn; Like the ghost.

You should feel entitled that you are equal with her level of value like an alpha male, and you just need to act like how you act when talking to an ugly women.

You also did good body language, you smiled and eye contact and good voice and despite all of that she still rejects you onset like i have a boyfriend thing or giving IODS like she’s not responding , acting irritated or just dont wanna talk to you.

I know we should give IODs as well but in your opinion guys how we should give IOD and can u give some good IODs you can say and how do you proceed with this scenario ..

What I’m doing in the past was that I neg her and gave her IOD. I still plough my game until the bitter end but i still lose the set most of the time.

Meron ding na ho hook kaso karamihan epic fail because their still giving me IODs until I get tired because their not responding and I’ll just find myself walking away.

I realized na what a waste of energy that in the end it will still fail.

So now when I approach and they reject me I just give IOD and say nice meeting you and walk away but going back WHAT IF you really want to get this girl that rejected you and seems not interested in you how do we turn the tables and still get her? Is it game over when she rejected you or is there any alternative here? - Jerome

Rejection is part of the game. If you aren’t getting rejected then it’s a sign that you’re not approaching girls well enough.

Before we move on let’s talk about why the whole of this is called… “game”.

It is called a game because it is.

In a game you start at level 1, the easiest level. Yet sometimes we still take some time to complete it. That’s probably what you are experiencing right now.

What you could do

As some well known “PUA” have said. Pick Up is an art. That’s what you need to express. Don’t just go in and try to talk the girl, make it graceful, make it something that can be appreciated.

Pick Up is a performing art. How well you will be perceived is how well you will be received.

A good approach does not start with a great opener. A good approach starts with “her inviting you to approach her”.  Check out this article (Using Proximity and Recognition to Make Her Approach You)

You have to keep in mind that if she’s not walking away then the game is still on. You just need to talk, or maybe shut up and let her talk, or probably lessen your words or listen to her.

Don’t show that you’re disinterested. You’ll look just like every other guy; hating her because she ain’t giving you the attention that you’re looking for.

Instead just be indifferent and stand there. Keep your composure and understand where she’s coming from.

She’s coming from the view of  ”Some creepy guy that is not that physically attractive is talking to me. He says another generic (ridiculous/cheesy/insulting) line in a generic situation so I’ll just say no”.

BTW check out this video… Skip to 2:00

Of course they don’t tell that to themselves. It’s already a synapse or a reflex in their brain. Rejecting every guy that comes their way (not unless she finds you a physically attractive, she will stick for a bit and find out if you’re worth the time).

Is It Game Over When She Rejects You?

You should ask, is the girl really rejecting you? Is she walking away? Maybe she just don’t know you yet and you aren’t patient enough.

Summin Up

• Make a good impression even before you approach
• Get her to invite you to approach her